publication date: Nov 15, 2010
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author/source: Anne Coates
Bullying is never acceptable. Yet according to the
National Centre for Social Research nearly half of England's
12 to 15 year olds have faced some form of
bullying (including
cyber-bullying) over the last year.
For
parents, one of the
problems of bullying is that it has usually been
going on for some time before they
find out about it – whether from a
school, their child, or some other
concerned person.
There are, however,
signs and
changes in patterns of
behaviour that can
indicate a child is being
bullied. For a
checklist of these signs to watch out for see
Bullying – is your child the victim or the perpetrator?Another problem is that some
types of bullying have become
almost accepted as what our children can
expect in our society:
name calling, being unkind, leaving a child out of a group and so on... What
Lyndall Horton-James does so successfully and comprehensively in her book
Raising Bullywise Kids, is to alert
parents and those working with
children to the widespread and insidious forms of
bullying as well as the more obvious bullying techniques.
Raising Bullywise Kids is set out in an
easy to read, accessible format that gives the parent
advice and
strategies for dealing with
bullying, avoiding
conflict, liaising with your
child's school and teachers and
working through the issues involved if the
bullying is happening within the
family.
Recommended reading for every parent and available from
Amazon by clicking the link below:
Raising Bullywise Kids: Everything You Need to Know to Protect Kids from Bullying