publication date: Aug 21, 2010
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author/source: Lynda Harding
Step 1 Create the moodA great way, nearly always guaranteed to help "
bring on" those
sleepy feelings is to give your little one a lovely
warm bath. Follow this with a little
baby massage. Any gentle caressing of the baby's arms, legs, body and forehead will really help bring on those
sleepy feelings... but DON'T OVER DO IT.... You need to make sure you slip in the next step first.
Step 2 Full tummyMake sure that your
baby has a really
satisfying feed at both the
early evening and
late night feeding times before they drop off to
sleep. Ensure your baby is
fully winded so as to avoid griping
tummy pains, which are certain to cause discomfort and a
restless baby. A full feed almost always guarantees a longer,
more settled sleep.
Step 3 Swaddling + dummy/pacifierTo help
newborns feel safe and secure is to
swaddle them tightly. This offers them
reassurance by reminding them of life in the
womb and also helps with limiting
waking caused by the startle reflex (
Moro reflex – when a baby suddenly startles with their
limbs outstretched).
Swaddling is a fantastic technique to use for around the first
three to four months or so. A
dummy also helps babies to settle by satisfying a baby's
natural sucking instinct. A lot of babies find them really soothing.
Dummies have also been proven to
reduce the risk of a sudden
infant death incident occurring.
Step 4 Give a little loveWith a
night-time cuddle it normally only takes a short while before your little one has
peacefully and contentedly drifted off to
sleep. If you prefer to put your
baby down while
drowsy but still awake, a good way to help them still feel
secure is to give them a
comforter that you have had next to
your body (tucked down your top for around one hour) so they can still
smell "mum" on it. In fact, a comforter is useful if they
stir after a short while – the aroma of
mum may be all that they
need to help them drift back off to
sleep.
Step 5 Make night feeds dullAlways make
night feeds subdued, with as
little interaction as possible. Keep the
room dimly lit and disturb your baby as little as possible. Don't even change their
nappy unless it's really necessary. Just
feed your baby,
wind her and then place her back in her cot/crib with her
comforter.Lynda Harding is the creator of the easidream® system (www.easidream.com) and
ewan the dream sheep.